Parents are obviously highly vested in the future and  welfare of their children.  That involvement can sometimes be over the top and create a distorted, emotional bias.  It should never be “we”… it is your daughter’s future… it is “her” future.  Parents are life advisors, so your influence and advice are essential and very important.  Parents should remain alert and vigilant for possible false representations by alleged Prospect Advocates with ulterior motives.  It is advised that parents seek the advice of other parents that have had relevant experience involving such representations to determine their veracity.  There are lots of good people involved in softball that have the best interest of your daughter in mind.